There Are Plenty of (Wo)Men Who

Text, call, show up when they say they will.
Want intimacy.
Desire a real relationship.
Work through problems.
Are steadfast and reliable.
Are loyal.
Like sex, and love sex with you!
Have a job.
Aren’t already married.
Are fun and engaging.
Want what you want.
Desire the same kind of future you desire.
Are emotionally mature.
Will go to therapy as needed.
Will treat you as important and valuable.
will work through problems.
Won’t put up with toxic bullshit…

Now go find this guy, and dump the one you are trying to make this guy.